125 Sexy Questions to Ask Your Partner

As someone whose literal job is essentially to think and write about sex all day (tough work, but someone’s gotta do it, y’know?) I spend a lot of time asking people questions about sex—including my own sexual partners, both current and (potentially) future. Why? Because asking questions, as they say, is a good way to find things out—things like, oh, IDK, what someone likes in bed, how they feel about foot stuff, and what fantasies they have on replay in their spank bank. And also because it’s a hell of a lot of fun.