If you take pop culture’s word for it, all it takes to ensure the female orgasm is a few passionate thrusts—no clitoral stimulation necessary. So easy, right? But IRL (*gestures wildly*), that’s not going to work for most people with vaginas!
“More than 80 percent of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone,” says Niki Davis-Fainbloom, a sex expert and coach. That’s probably because, according to sex positive therapist Nikki Coleman, PhD, most of what we’re taught about sex and pleasure is heteronormative and penis-centered, so folks with vaginas end up getting lost in the orgasm gap. Go ahead and do
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